I've never been afraid to ask for what you want in bed. I guess because during my teen age I realized that I am a pervert and I had. But in my later years more to connect with guys, I have come to see clearly what I want is a little weird: The guys have told me that the women become self-conscious to ask for something off-color or curly .

Therefore, I'm going to help the couples. Here are some things that your female partner would want, but is too shy to ask. There is no pressure, of course - but if you offer, you may be pleasantly surprised by the enthusiasm she accepts.


1. She loves to eat out more: Our culture has a strange relationship with VAG, if you have not noticed. Your female partner has probably been exposed to a lot of lame-o message saying that her vag is "too hairy", "bad smell", "tastes gross," "ugly", etc. would really love to receive oral sex, but she has afraid to ask you because you are afraid, it has internalized the same message she has.

How to DO: It's time to start praising their parts with sincerity big lady ".! Her pussy is so beautiful" "I love the shape of the vagina is" "I love the way the pussy tastes. " "I love to hear you moan while eating out!" And so on. If you are offended by the word "pussy" it is obvious that should say something different. If you are still wary of being eaten out, do not push. Offer to massage around the inner thighs and outer folds of her lips, continue to provide for it, and keep praising his VAG, until it smooths out. And if not, well, maybe not only in oral sex!

2. She wants to waste time in public: Let me be clear: After full on sex in public can be a little too risque - not to mention messy - for some women, including myself. But that does not mean that a woman could not love a heavy make-up session at the banquet at the corner of the bar, the back seat of you car, or in the footsteps of your forehead!

How to DO: Download the Kelis song "in public" - the chorus says "Let's go ahead in public" - and when you play, ask your girl if she thinks it's sexy.

3. She wants to be dominated: Even women with ballsy big mouth and I enjoy being dominated! However, commands a very scary woman from the men because they fear - rightly - that the rape-y. However, with tons of confidence and communication, which will be cremated her panties in no time! Just take baby steps and constantly reading your body language to make sure you are comfortable, both physically and emotionally. I want to emphasize the importance of baby steps: If you play with dominance, which is never a good idea to start with anything that might hurt their feelings or humiliate her, ie, barking orders to her ("Go down on me NOW! ") or insults (" Slut! "). Playing with restrictions - restrictions loose, of course - is definitely a better way to go.

How to DO: Start simple. Very simple. "Would you like blindfolded you the next time you go down on you?" If she likes that, next question: "Would you like me to free his wrists tied to the bedposts? If she likes that, next time to ask: "Would you like your arms while I was licking my breasts?" If she likes that the two can find out what else might like. It is also a good idea to create a "safe word", which is something you can say when you want to stop immediately. (Sometimes in the heat of the moment people say "Oh, noooo!" When they want to say "Oh, that feels good!" So it's good if your safe word is something other than "no.") My word Security is this sentence: "I want to stop now." Because it makes my intentions clear.

4. She wants you to be the submissive one: Mastering might not be your thing, but might want to dominate. Yes, even if she is shy and timid! Speaking from a lady's point of view, it can be difficult to tell a guy that wants to dominate because it is difficult to see that the kids think it's too emasculating. (I'm not saying that a man has mastered to become a castrating, some guys just perceived that way.) But if you think your wife can get your rocks off by playing the sex goddess, I will raise the penalty dominated.

How to DO: Does your wife never ride cowgirl? If this is your favorite movement - and in my experience, a lot of guys, that is - I say that only love in the control. Then, suggest the same things I've recommended in the framework of "She wants to be dominated" section - let's say you want to give you a BJ while blindfolded, then with his wrists tied to pole bed, etc. If you find your inner queen of domination, you're a lucky guy!

5. She wants to be spanked: Lightly beat up a woman (ie, anything that might cause a hematology) can feel amazing for both: I have heard many women say they get spanked sending a lot of tingling sensations in their areas vaginal and anal and I have heard a lot of men say they beat up a woman makes them feel as if they were physically demonstrating their lust. I've been pretty open about my own enjoyment and to get spanked, I promise, many women love it. Unfortunately, asking to be spanked can be embarrassing for a woman because, well, silly!

How to DO: Like when you're a woman if she wants to be dominated, the key is taking small steps. While you're doing out much ass touch, squeeze, rub, to show that I think your loot is a maz-ing. Whisper in his ear: "I can give you a little spanking?" If she says yes, do it once, softly. Ask: "Do you like that?" If she says yes, or even if she is ambivalent, ask if you can do a few more times, while still squeezing and kissing and rubbing her ass. Then you should probably stop. The next time the guys are touching, ask him how he liked spanking little and ask if you want to try again sometime. If she is receptive, ask her if she wants you to do more difficult or would like to be in your lap as you whip. One more thing: my advice about a woman that dominates is the same, too. Do not call her names and humiliate her unless she tells him that's what he wants. For all I know, she has plenty of problems, from childhood to being spanked and calling it a "bad girl" can be annoying. The same applies to women who may have had an abusive relationship in the past: even if his wife likes to get spanked, it is important to remember that spanking is still hit and need to be absolutely 100 percent clear you're just making in the context of sexual arousal. Understood? Now go look at.

Help me, : What else do women love to try in bed is sometimes too shy to ask?

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