We have asked and searched a lot about Dos and Don'ts of kissing, but still unable to find 100% what to DO and what not to DO when kissing. we are posting here all replies but remember these do's and don'ts are designed to help underscore the important points of good kissing. Of course, these aren't meant to be taken as law... just as guidelines to improve your kissing.

DO gently caress your partner's face.
DON'T octopus your hands all over their body.


DO use your tongue to stimulate.
DON'T use your tongue like a jackhammer.

DO notice how your partner reacts to your kisses.
DON'T notice how cute the guy at the next table is.

DO communicate with your partner.
DON'T communicate the kiss to everyone in the locker room.

DO be confident in yourself
DON'T be confident you'll never be kissed.


What not to do when kissing.

When it comes to sex and love, there’s no such thing as too much knowledge. No matter how much experience one has, there are always some things that were missed, some bits of information that did not reach him or her. And since most people have other things to do with their lives than striving to become a sort of walking sex and love encyclopedias, it follows that everybody needs tips now and then.

Among the physical expressions of love, kisses are very versatile tools in the emotional kit of any human being. From the short and tender kiss of a grandmother, to heads of state briefly touching their lips to each other’s cheeks and on to passionate lovers French kissing their way to a hot session of sex, it’s obvious that our lips can express many things.

And since the best kisses are those that come out right, some tips are in order for the use of people who either don’t get much practice or are not catching up fast on what they should do. Don’t laugh! Nobody was born knowing how to do this or that thing. We all have to learn.

While we can all be thankful to the French for opening the door to the intimate play of tongues (although it’s not clear whether the French kiss comes from Paris or not), kissing is actually a universal language that can be learnt by all people. Traditionally, French kissing has been associated with the Western world, from which it’s now spreading around the globe.

When preparing to go for the kiss, take your time for a reality check. Is the girl willing to go along with this or not? If you’re about to make your approach and the girl gets an embarrassed look on her face and starts fidgeting in her chair in what may be seen as an evasive maneuver, then pull back and give her some breathing space. Don’t rush things because you’re going to regret it.

First thing you need to know is that French kisses are not meant for the first date, unless, of course, the girl is quite the party animal and you both know that your date has only one purpose. In that case, anything goes if you can get away with it; even sex in the restaurant’s lavatory. Or if the girl is so clearly willing that there can be no mistake about it. But in all other cases, save French kissing either for the end of the date or for another date.

Two things that girls hate is to have guys shoving their tongues down their throats and to have their oxygen supply cut off during kissing. Therefore, you need to take care that you leave the girl enough room to breathe or to break the kiss every now and then. This will also help you, because you also need the oxygen. Two people kissing are sharing an intimate moment, not engaging in an endurance test or in a race to the death.

When actually going for the kiss, don’t charge with your tongue sticking out or your mouth. This can gross out even the hardcore promiscuous people. Put your lips against hers and only then let your tongue come out to play. And don’t stab her mouth with your tongue. Keep your cool and read her emotions. If she wants more passion or a little rough play, then go ahead and do what you think best. If not, then keep your tongue to yourself.

On the other hand, if both you and your partner find yourselves exhausted by a prolonged session of passionate kissing, then you are on the right path. It means that she enjoys your kisses and that she probably doesn’t mind going even further. Just remember to refrain from rushing things. The slow path is sometimes best.

Tips

A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is bad breath. Always carry with you some mints or gum, and have a few before you kiss. Offer him one too.

Avoid spicy foods, garlic and onions or any food that has a strong lasting smell just before a kiss. Or at least make sure you're both eating spicy food, so neither will notice.

Non-smokers hate kissing a smoker! It's as gross as kissing an ashtray!

You might be nervous, but don't giggle during or after you kiss. The other person won't understand it's nervous laughter. He'll think that you were laughing at him!


Do's

Relax! Just think about the kiss you are giving.

Gently touch your partners lips with your tongue and if you are met with resistance, stop for now.

Start off slow. pick up the pace as you get caught in the moment.

Keep your eyes closed.

Feel confident in your kissing style, and kiss like there is nothing else you'd rather be doing at this moment.

Use your hands in non-erotic zones. You could rub their back, shoulders, or arms.

Make it romantic, not just sexual.

End the kiss with a small soft kiss.

Remember there is no right or wrong way to kiss. Once you begin, just go with the flow.

Don'ts

Use too much tongue. Keep it to a minimum, and don't stick it down their throat. When it comes to tongue, less is more!

Pull your lips back, or else you'll bump teeth!

Stare at the other person.

Mash your face hard against theirs. Gentleness is the key.

Grope excessively. Remember, kissing is romantic, and not just sexual.

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