“Snow is falling, all around us – children playing, having fun” are words from a Christmas song which remind us that Christmas is a special time for children all around the world. They will be immersed in it, whether at school, church or other activities – and it will be an exciting time for them.

The magic of Christmas can still be very real for children, even though there is sadness in their lives. Children ‘live for the moment’ more than adults do and you may well find that they are able to enter into Christmassy things much easier than you are. Yes, there will still be moments of poignancy and sadness – but it’s likely that our children will enjoy Christmas more than we will. How can we best help them?

Take some time beforehand to talk to them about how they would like to spend Christmas and how they would like to remember Mum or Dad.

Include them in any ‘remembrance’ times or activities – but let them decide on new activities or routines as well; it’s their way of building their future.

Let them know that although you are sad, Christmas can be a good time – and that it’s okay for them to have fun.

Be prepared for them to ‘crash’ into moments of sadness from time to time – especially after the festivities are over. Children tend to get ‘up and down’ much easier and quicker than adults – be prepared to help them back to their feet again, and don’t be surprised if they’re ‘bouncing’ again before long.

Celebrate the fact that your children can still enjoy Christmas, even if it’s difficult for you. Don’t expect them to think or feel the way you do.


We wish to reach out to more people and do much more than our current programs For this we need more funds, more volunteers and your continued support. Your money will be used in Health, Education, Food, Legal Support, Shelter etc. on this Christmas


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